Welcome to this new year! Is it just me or does it already feel like there is momentum building for this year? I have this felt sense this week that I would liken to the sensation of an aircraft waiting to take off. Do you feel that too? Welcome to today’s dose of wisdom. I …
Have you been in moments in relationship when you and your partner find yourself in a conflict that feels like a tug of war?One person tells it like it IS and the other person responds with “yes, but…” and then they tell it like it REALLY IS? And back and forth it goes. Welcome to …
So there is a hell of a lot to get done. The to do list is unrelenting. Lots of big stuff happening and lots of feelings about it. Shouldn’t your partner/friend/colleague “just know” how you feel. “Isn’t it obvious!?” “Wouldn’t they feel the same way if it was them?” Today we are talking about:Why do …
Why do I have to tell her/him what I need? If they love me, they should “know” Read More »
A number of months ago I was walking my dog and I had a strange interaction with a complete stranger on the street that made me laugh, feel disappointed and confused all at the same time. I was walking towards them with my dog, Baci and as we got to within hearing distance of each …
So I say that I am a Psychologist who “works with individuals, couples and families to strengthen their relationship with themselves and those they love” but why are relationships my focus? Well when I really examine life in its barest form, as humans we are mammals – pack animals, tribal animals. We exist and thrive in healthy …
